At Merel Family Law, we’ve been helping clients with their family law needs since 2009, and our team of 20 lawyers has a collective 221 years of experience successfully helping them resolve their matters. We know that when it comes to laws affecting families, it is literally personal. We understand how challenging many family law issues are, and our preeminent Troy, MI family lawyer is here for you. Whether you’re dealing with divorce, child custody concerns, or financial disagreements, having the right approach and support can make all the difference.
Focus On Communication
One of the first things we advise our clients to do is focus on clear, respectful communication—especially when children are involved. Whether you’re communicating with a spouse, former partner, or co-parent, keeping the conversation constructive helps reduce stress and keeps matters from escalating. This applies to conversations in person, by phone, or in writing. Courts also look favorably on parents who demonstrate cooperation and a willingness to work together.
Know Your Rights And Responsibilities
Many people are unsure about what the law allows or requires. This can apply to things like parenting time, asset division, or child support. We always recommend being informed early in the process. Even if you’re still deciding whether to move forward with a legal filing, having accurate information helps you make smart decisions. Our offices in Illinois and Michigan are available to provide legal support specific to each state’s laws.
Stay Organized And Document Everything
Keeping track of documents, communication, and financial records is more important than most people realize. This includes emails, text messages, bank statements, and any agreements made between parties. These records can often play an important role in resolving disputes or presenting your side in court. We often see better outcomes when clients come to us with everything well-documented from the beginning.
Don’t Make Decisions Based On Emotion
Family law issues are emotionally charged, and it’s understandable to feel overwhelmed. However, making big decisions—like moving out, taking the kids, or emptying a joint account—without legal guidance can lead to serious consequences. It’s always better to speak with a lawyer first, even if things feel urgent. We work with clients every day to help them take the right steps, at the right time.
Put The Children First
When children are involved, courts will always prioritize their best interests, and so should we. That means creating a stable environment, avoiding negative talk about the other parent, and sticking to agreed-upon schedules. Judges often consider each parent’s behavior when making custody decisions. We encourage all clients to act in ways that support their children’s well-being, even when it’s difficult.
Be Proactive About Legal Support
Some people wait too long to speak with a lawyer, thinking things will work themselves out. Unfortunately, that often leads to more stress and fewer options. Whether you’re facing divorce, seeking custody, or needing help with enforcement of court orders, acting early can protect your rights and avoid bigger problems later.
If you or someone you care about needs help with a family law matter, Merel Family Law specializes exclusively in family law, including divorce, child custody, domestic violence, alimony, high‑net‑worth divorce, LGBTQ family law, pet custody and more. Give us a call today.
